LinkedIn, Facebook, & Twitter all have the capability to post
updates about yourself, but what is appropriate to post where? This
video will help you sort out the differences among the big 3, and
decide what kind of information is most appropriate to post on which platform.
by: Christine Pilch
Christine@GrowMyCo.com
My LinkedIn Profile
On Twitter
I have a couple hundred Facebook friends and maybe a dozen of them are
on Twitter. That means that most of my Facebook friends would probably
be confused by most of my Twitter posts. So I don't auto-feed them to
my Facebook status. But many people do. I think that's a bad idea.
Facebook has an application that automatically pulls most of your Twitter posts and updates your Facebook status with them. The only ones it doesn't post are @Replies and DMs. It even pulls RTs. Now considering that a lot of Twitter posts are clips of mini conversations with other tweeps, when you post them to Facebook, your Facebook friends are only seeing one side of a conversation. That's just confusing.
Also, if you're like most Twitter users, you are in and out of the utility throughout the day, and you likely post multiple times within a short period of time. If all of these are posted to Facebook, that fills up your friends Facebook homepage stream with mostly your own status updates. I'm guessing that your friends might consider that a bit pompous, as they are probably interested in what you're doing, but also interested in what others are doing. If you fill up all their space, they're not getting equal information about other friends.
There is a happy medium however. People who use TweetDeck have the option of checking a box to post select tweets to their Facebook status. This is the best of both worlds. It spares you of the extra effort of duplicate posting across two platforms, and it saves your Facebook friends the irritation of reading every Tweet.
by: Christine Pilch
Christine@GrowMyCo.com
My LinkedIn Profile
On Twitter
This is also posted on www.socmedia101.com: Social Media Tips and How To's for Beginners.
On June 16, 2009, TweetDeck
released a significant upgrade. One of the most requested and
impressive features is the new ability to backup your TweetDeck account
and open it on any computer in the world. This eliminates the old
necessity to reconfigure your account and rebuild all your groups from
computer to computer.
This video explains how to set up TweetDeck to take advantage of this terrific feature.
by: Christine Pilch
Christine@GrowMyCo.com
My LinkedIn Profile
On Twitter
It is likely that you will quickly outgrow the web-based Twitter
application when you follow 50-100+ people. Then it might be time to
take a look at TweetDeck. This video will show you a few tips about how
you can customize TweetDeck.
by: Christine Pilch
Christine@GrowMyCo.com
My LinkedIn Profile
On Twitter
Facebook is a lot of fun, but it can also be a dangerous place
for your kids if they're not careful. This video offers tips about how
you can help keep your kids safe.
by: Christine Pilch
Christine@GrowMyCo.com
My LinkedIn Profile
On Twitter
This is a little different than what I normally address in my blog
posts, but I feel it's important. Lately I've seen a couple people make
a very public social media spectacle of their personal relationships'
disintegration, and that could have been avoided if they had just been
a bit more discrete.
I think that you're pretty safe on LinkedIn. That site is generally professionally-oriented, and most people keep their personal lives out of it. But Facebook and Twitter are much more socially-oriented, and when a relationship is all hearts and flowers, you may want to shout it to the world. But what happens when it ends?
The interesting part is that sometimes people rush to change their Facebook relationship status to "in a relationship" very early on in that relationship, before they really know each other. It might be better to take a step back and treat social media like you do real life. Do you rush out broadcasting to the world that you're now "taken?" Do you tell everyone you meet, friends, family and strangers every chance you get? Maybe some people do, but many people are more discrete and careful about who they share that information with, if for no other reason, to minimize the circle of people they will have to explain a potential future breakup to.
So, what happens when you've been involved with someone for a period of time and have made a very public demonstration of your coupled status on Facebook and Twitter, and made a bunch of friends together, and then you break up? Who gets the friends? What if his/her friends start criticizing you in social media, perhaps simply to boost the ruptured ego of their closer friend? What if your ex quickly finds a new love, and you are confronted with this potentially painful fact every time you log into your account?
It's much easier to avoid potentially painful situations and people in the real world than it is in social media if you're "friends" and "following" each other. This is where decisions have to be made. You can toughen up and find a way to deal with the new reality, or you can sever your ties with the ex and his/her circle of friends. Or you can stalk your ex. Just kidding. I don't recommend that one.
In the meantime though, this breakup also likely creates an uncomfortable situation for any common friends who may be caught in the middle or feel they have to pick sides. Again, it's generally pretty easy to avoid people in the real world, but the virtual reality makes it hard when you're connected through social media channels.
Ultimately, I caution my clients to be careful about posting personal relationship information on social media before they are married. I also caution them to be careful about postings and tweets that are shared with an intimate partner. Such posts can really come back to bite you down the line when things aren't so wonderful anymore.
Ultimately, discretion is the key, and it can prevent a lot of heartache, embarrassment and a potential public spectacle in the future.
by: Christine Pilch
Christine@GrowMyCo.com
My LinkedIn Profile
On Twitter
